8. Overcome the fear of losing
"Like everyone else, you want to learn the way to win. B u t never accept the way tolose. To accept defeat - to learn to die - is to be liberated from it. Once you accept, you are
free to flow and to harmonize. Fluidity is the way to an empty mind. You must free your
ambitious mind and learn the art of dying. "
Bruce Lee
Defeat in chess can be likened to a symbolic death. Whilst most players can
learn to take it in their stride, at the time of the game a player should feel that he's
literally fighting for his life. Not to do so means that they are not as involved as
they should be.
So how does someone reconcile the fear of a chessboard death with taking the
necessary risks to win? Many players do not; for example, they'll withdraw themselves
from the chess act so as not to feel too much pain when they lose. Such
players are likely to dismiss their defeats by saying 'it's only a game'. But this
leads to a dramatic lowering of motivation.
Other players may have their psyches more fully invested but then try to reduce
the risk of ever losing. So whilst their motivation may be much stronger than
those who don't care, they are likely to avoid moves which lead to strategic imbalance.
This in turn may make it difficult for them to win games and thus enjoy
much success in tournaments.
Is there a better way? Yes indeed, but it's not at all easy. The trick is to overcome
the fear of losing without starting not to care, which in a sense means learning
to die. This is something I've struggled with in my own game and I still draw
far too many games. But I continue to find inspiration amongst some of the great
players in history, such as the fearless Danish Grandmaster, Bent Larsen.
Larsen' s remarkable tournament record was at least partially down to his willingness
to risk losing. He saw a draw as the loss of half a point and would go out
of his way to unbalance the game with risky openings. Here's a good example of
both the danger and opportunity presented by his approach, an opening that misfires
completely and then a brilliant fight back from a lost position:
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